An open letter to cis people who claim to be trans allies

Trans people don’t owe you a certain presentation.

Feb 27

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January 2026

Writing for yourself or for an audience: A neurodivergent perspective

There’s a common debate in the writing world about whether to write for yourself or for your audience.

Jan 30

3

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BOOK EXCERPT: Attraction and emotions: My autistic experience

I’ve been thinking about how I experience attraction, and I think that I might be recipromantic.

Jan 28

2

September 2025

BOOK EXCERPT: Why I prefer someone who’s “too much” to too little

I had a partner who, when we started dating, I thought was securely attached.

Sep 26, 2025

2

BOOK EXCERPT: What romance means to me

I’ve been thinking about what romance means to me and processing my thoughts and experiences of it, and I’ve had a massive shift in my understanding of…

Sep 23, 2025

1

July 2025

Phenomenology and the social construction of gender

In philosophy there’s a school of thought called phenomenology.

Jul 2, 2025

2

May 2023

A response to allies who want to understand nonbinary gender identities

Many people don’t know what it means to be nonbinary.

May 2, 2023

2

December 2022

I hacked my ADHD and gamified my entire life

I’ve struggled with brushing my teeth my entire life, which made me develop an unhealthy relationship with them.

Dec 29, 2022

2

November 2022

Neuroqueering confidence

Confidence is very gendered.

Nov 20, 2022

2

September 2022

Parallel play and neurodivergent joy

I have a constant push and pull between wanting to be with others and wanting to be alone, and I’ve realized that it’s because I highly value and need…

Sep 19, 2022

2

August 2022

Overcoming the executive dysfunction of initiating conversation

I’ve realized that when I want to meet people, my mind hyperfixates on my desire to want to meet people that I don’t even pay attention to whether I…

Aug 31, 2022

2

July 2022

Taking space while being present in a relationship

I’m a caregiver at heart.

Jul 19, 2022

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